What can you expect from me?
Repairing relationships cannot be captured in a defined mould of hours and minutes. For this reason, I do not work on the basis of hours but on the basis of sessions. A session with me lasts at least 90 minutes, and longer if necessary.
My sessions do not end with: “Your time is up! Thank you for coming. I will see you next week.”, while you were still in the middle of your sentence.
I want you to achieve something valuable for your relationship each session. I want you to have taken a step in the direction you desire. I want each session to end with you having the courage to continue building upon your relationship.
I apply a practical approach which is based on the reality that arises in the session. Pushing you or pulling you is not my style, yet I do not mind taking you out of your comfort zone if that is necessary. No matter what, my approach is always respectful and loving. I offer a lasting result, not a ‘quick fix’.
EFT couples therapy that is pleasant…
Couples may find it hard to discuss their relationship problems with a complete stranger. As a couple you may be looking for someone who understands and who relates to your feelings, frustrations, and pain. Someone who believes in both of you, even if you may have lost your own faith in your relationship somewhere. Someone who restores your confidence and hope in your relationship…
I will approach you as I would like to be approached myself. As a human being, beautifully complete and whole, with your own unique background and set of strengths and vulnerabilities. My focus will be on the relationship. In my eyes you are not broken. I do not set out to diagnose, label of fix you. And that is what makes my approach so pleasant.